Married AF to Money: How to Build a Loving, Abundant Relationship with Your Finances
Let’s get real—if money was a person, would it want to be in a relationship with you? ????
Would it feel loved, appreciated, and respected?
Or would it feel ignored, feared, or pushed away?
Most people treat money like a toxic ex—complaining about it, stressing over it, and never feeling like there’s enough. And then they wonder why money never sticks around!
Here’s the truth: If you don’t love money, it won’t love you back.
If you’re constantly talking about how you “never have enough” or how “money is stressful,” then money is like, “Oh, okay… I guess I’m not welcome here. I’ll go find someone who actually appreciates me.”
But when you respect, appreciate, and commit to money the way you would a loving partner, it starts showing up for you in ways you never imagined.
So, let’s talk about how to go all in—married AF to money, in the healthiest, most abundant way possible. ????????
Step 1: Ditch the Scarcity Mindset
If you grew up hearing things like:
???? “Money doesn’t grow on trees.”
???? “We can’t afford that.”
???? “Rich people are greedy.”
???? “You have to work hard to make money.”
Then your subconscious probably believes that money is hard, limited, or even bad.
But the truth is: Money is just energy. It’s neither good nor bad. It flows where it’s appreciated and welcomed.
???? Instead of: “I can’t afford this.” → Say: “How can I create the money for this?”
???? Instead of: “Money is stressful.” → Say: “Money supports me in living my best life.”
???? Instead of: “I have to work hard for money.” → Say: “Money flows to me in fun and unexpected ways.”
Changing your money language shifts your energy—and when your energy changes, so does your bank account.
Step 2: Talk to Money Like It’s Your Ride-or-Die Partner
Imagine money is a real person in your life.
???? Would you ignore them?
???? Would you complain about them all the time?
???? Would you stress about them constantly and expect them to stick around?
Or would you:
???? Show them appreciation?
???? Trust them to support you?
???? Celebrate them when they arrive?
Start having conversations with money like it’s your partner.
???? “Money, I love and appreciate you.”
???? “Thank you for always showing up for me.”
???? “I trust that you will always take care of me.”
???? “I am so grateful to circulate you and help others.”
This might sound silly, but trust me—money has energy. And when you treat it with love and respect, it responds.
Step 3: Thank Money Every Time You Spend It
Most people feel a little ugh when they spend money. They think: “Ugh, there goes another $50.”
That energy is like telling money: “I don’t like you. I wish you weren’t leaving.” And money is like, “Damn, okay, I won’t come back then.”
Instead, every time you spend money, thank it.
???? “Thank you for allowing me to buy this amazing meal.”
???? “Thank you for helping me pay for this home that shelters me.”
???? “Thank you for circulating and supporting others.”
Because here’s the thing—you’re not just losing money when you spend it.
You’re exchanging it. You’re helping the grocery store stay in business. You’re supporting the employees who work there. You’re allowing someone else to feed their family.
Money is always flowing, expanding, and coming back to you. When you give with gratitude, you receive with abundance.
Step 4: Make Money Feel Safe with You
Money, just like a relationship, needs trust and security.
If you constantly blow through your money with zero intention, that’s like being in a chaotic, unpredictable relationship. Money won’t feel safe sticking around.
But when you:
✔️ Give your money a purpose
✔️ Create a plan for where it goes
✔️ Invest in things that grow your wealth
Money feels safe, loved, and ready to commit to you.
Try using the 6-Jar Money Method (or any intentional system) to make sure every dollar has a job. That way, money isn’t just coming in and disappearing—it’s working for you.
Step 5: Stay in the Energy of Wealth
You don’t have to wait until you’re rich to feel wealthy.
???? Dress in a way that makes you feel abundant.
???? Carry cash in your wallet and appreciate it.
???? Buy yourself little luxuries (even if it’s a $5 latte).
???? Celebrate every dollar that comes in—even if it’s just a refund or a $10 Venmo from a friend.
Money loves a high vibe. When you feel wealthy before the money comes, the money comes faster.
Step 6: Be Fully Committed to Your Money Relationship
If you were in a loving, committed marriage, you wouldn’t:
???? Cheat on your partner (aka, ignore your money)
???? Constantly complain about them (aka, stress over money)
???? Ignore their needs (aka, avoid looking at your finances)
So don’t do that with money.
✔️ Check in with your finances weekly.
✔️ Celebrate when money comes in—even the little amounts.
✔️ Show appreciation for every bill you pay.
✔️ Trust that money is always flowing to you.
The more love, trust, and gratitude you pour into your relationship with money, the more money will love, trust, and support you back.
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Because money is waiting for you to say YES to it. Are you ready? ????
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